Single and Marriage Life

Hellow my dear friends and my honarable teacher, this is farhana yeasmin mumu and thereis my group members,at first/first of all I want to/ wanna introudce them to u†¦. 1. x 2. y 3. z Now um on the point,why we are standing front of you In this room there is we can divided or separate by a margine/line wre the students and our honarable teacher/Lecturer About our Presenetation there is a big picture to get/reach in to the point If I don’t make any mistake we are all the student in this room, still we are leading the single life , which we called bheacelor or unmarried life. who is sitting front of us the madam or teacher he has got a family as his own If I try to make some compirasson or difference between our teacher and me, the daily routine or thes schedule will be focused. Because um single and she has got a family,in that point im responsible just for my self and she has to responsible about lot of things. Its very easy to understand single and married life both are just the period of our life line. After passed the chilldhood we went to the school, collage and complete the graduation, then the getting marrige this subject came in our every single life, as a moral fact. Somebody takes the responsibility emideatly or some body takes it/that lately. Today, a lot of significant number of people are being married and still being single. This has changed their lives and gives differences between one another. In this essay, I’m going to compare and contrast the differences between single people lives and married people lives in lifestyle, companionship, and responsibility. In lifestyle, single people will have much more privacy in their lives. They will not be bothered by anybody at home. Nobody will command them not to sleep late, not to watch telivision too much and so on and so on. Therefore, single people live life freely. They can spend their time with their friends anywhere at anytime they want. In contrast, married people will be bothered with their partners. They have to take care of each other and if they have children things would become a lot more complicated. They can’t live a free lifestyle. They need to get permission from their partners if they want to go out with friends, best friends or whatever you name it. In general, married people are more busy because simply the strong bond between their children and their partners are tangible. Secondly, companionship is another distinct difference between single and married people lives. A husband will depend on his wife, and a wife will depend on her husband. Livelihood will be achieved easily by married people from their partners, parents and from their children. In contrast, single people don’t depend on anybody except their friends and parents. They can’t trust anyone else to share their secrets or to rely on shoulders. However, livelihood can be achieved from their parents and their friends. Lastly, married people are more responsible and busy than single people. They have to manage their money or expenses gently and economically every day. They are also responsible for raising their children and guiding their families in the right manner. Otherwise, they can ruin their lives easily. Married people are also responsible to manage their time for their families. They have to spend their time with their children, husband or wife every day. In contrast, people who still remain single don’t have schedule to look after their children or partners and they are not obligated to guide and/or manage their livings. Therefore, they are much less responsible than married people. There they are; lifestyle, companionship, and responsibility are the 3 main differences between single and married people lives. In my opinion, being a married person is better than being a single person, because we are created by God with partner like Adam and Eve story. Independence * Once you are married, you no longer exist as an independent entity. You might keep your job and your relationship might be excellent, but from your wedding onward you must always think as a husband and wife. The decisions you make affect your future together. The things you buy have an impact on both of your finances. Everything you do must be considered from your husband or wife's point of view. When you are single, you only have to consider your own interests when making decisions, but you are also short the emotional support that makes hard decisions easier to bear. Money * Getting married can have significant monetary benefits, but it also can be quite costly. Married couples receive a tax break and benefit from the ability to pool their financial resources. Mortgage and rent payments are split. Single individuals receive no tax break and must cover their living costs on their own. On the downside for married couples, single people can spend money when and where they see fit without worrying about an angry spouse. Free Time * Being married is a lot like a second job. You have to work at it for it to be successful. Married couples need dedicated time to communicate with one another and help each other with their emotional and physical demands. Because of this, married people usually have less free time to spend hanging out with friends or checking out the latest movie. If you are single, you have more free time but also might find that your free time is not as fun without someone with which to spend it. The Future * One of the core elements of marriage is that in most cases it symbolizes the beginning of a family. Married couples spend more time discussing the future — how to save money, what sort of career choices to make and when to start thinking about children. Married people are more concerned with their future ability to raise their family than many single individuals who do not have to worry about much beyond their monthly expenses. o get married, you will also learn to have more responsibilities as well as learn to be more busy than your single life and step through many sharings between the two of you. there are many differences and similarities in married and single life about responsibilities as well as money and activities. Living a single life can be significantly different from being married. A marriage traditionally marks the beginning of a family; on the other hand, usually being single means that having a different solo life. A single person would have more independence than a married person. The differences between single and married life range from very small to very large, but there are few core contrasts that show the main differences between the two lifestyles. Differences between single and married men. married life will provide a person with emotional support that is such a great help in meeting ups and downs of life . For all the value placed on friendship , friends also have their own lives to care for , and their input in an individual ‘s will always be limited . Besides , as we grow older , we are likely to drift apart from the parental family . Our spouse and children will then serve as a prop , helping us in the difficult moments of our life and sharing our joys . Over the course of my married life , I can remember so many instances when even a brief talk with my husband in the evening relieved my worries . The freedom and carelessness of single life disappear in marriage , but when you begin to care for others , in a happy marriage you are rewarded by enjoying their care in return Single Life and Married Life There is something about marriage that changes everything it starts from when you say I do. When you’re single you have more liberty in the aspect of coming and going with friends, with no worries in the financial aspect of things. Marriage is about respecting each other becoming one versus single life is really about two separate people knowing each other. In the life of a single person everything within the home environment is under the persons own control. Therefore he or she does not have to consider others before making decisions. In addition, the single person has no need to consult anyone else regarding any decisions such as house decoration, holiday dates and locations. Thus there is no need to compromise. Furthermore, everything within their life belongs to a single person. He or she owns his or her life completely and does not need to share any aspect of it with another person. Existence is within his or her own space. Being single is for those you are not ready to take the next step in life. They are still working on themselves. It is not a bad thing. We must all find ourselves first to be able to know who that great person is that we end up sharing the rest of our lives with. When you find yourself, then it is so much easier to find that true person that belongs in your life. Marriage is a great new step one takes in life. It comes to your heart when you take a good look at your life and you realize something is missing. You have never had it to begin with but yet you miss it. Then you realize what the next step in your life is. Finding that person is so much easier when you know who you are first. In married life, Control is compromised through the need to consider a partner's feeling or opinions. Similarly, everything within the married environment has to be shared. Whilst both parties may be able to find some space of his or her own, the majority of the time this will be shared with others.